Monday, June 21, 2010

What would you do?

So i went to Sea World in Mach and the lady and i are in the bed. Her daughters father calls and she is laying next to me having a convo with her child's father about her daughter. Fellas how would you take something like that? Im not a jelous person at all but i'm not going to lie dealing with situations like this is kind of difficult at times. How would you take it if your boyfriend/girlfriend was in the bed having a conversation with their ex boyfriend/ex girlfriend.

4 comments:

  1. I don't think you have anything to worry about. The fact that she can lay there next to you talking to her ex and not run off to the bathroom or the hallway proves she has nothing to hide.

    Sucks but it sounds like he's gonna be in the picture for 18 years plus

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  2. Of course you will likely be annoyed/frustrated/jealous or what have you at times like this but can you blame the father for wanting to check in on his daughter or the mother for being obligated to help facilitate her daughter's relationship with her father? Obviously I don't know the exact situation but you asked for opinions :p

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  3. Buca's right; if she's comfortable enough to be beside you and talk on the phone (despite that she's being a bit rude) about her kid to her ex, then don't sweat it so much. This means she has nothing to hide from you and you have nothing to worry about. Anyway, follow me at simplifyingcspan.blogspot.com

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  4. I can TOTALLY get your frustration. Although I agree with Buca & TheSimplifier, I also think there is a time and a place. It sounds like you spend a lot of time making up for the Father when he's not around. So, I am guessing that you and your girl don't have too much one-on-one time. She should be giving the phone a rest and be spending "alone" time with you...that includes not taking calls from ANYONE during your time with her...even if it's just an hour or two. You 'stepped up to the plate', when you really didn't have to and I think your girl needs to recognize by at least putting things aside to spend time with ONLY you.

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